One of the most controversial questions that I have been asked is, “Am I supposed to forgive a brother even though they are not sorry for their offense”.
In reflecting on this question, one must answer basic questions first, so that their response is not emotional, which often happens with this topic.
- Does God forgive us our sins and trespasses before we are ‘born again’ without us asking?
- If we are to forgive a brother without him being repentant, does God do this for us?
- Does God give the world a ‘blanket forgiveness’ and if so, would that allow all to enter eternal life without a relationship?
- Did Jesus forgive everyone who offended him? Did Paul?
- When did Jesus forgive some without their requesting forgiveness?
- Are their examples of forgiveness in the Word, where no one has asked?
- On the cross, to whom was Jesus referring when He said, “father, forgive them, for they know not what they are doing”?
- Why didn’t He forgive them, rather than asking God to do so?
- In the “Lord’s Prayer”, does it imply that we are to forgive all, without their asking? If so, why in the same verse, does it say “Father, forgive us our trespasses”? Isn’t the one praying asking God for forgiveness?
